The right path is not easy; it can not be reached without trouble.

The right path is not easy; it can not be reached without trouble.

Since his birth, his perfectionist instinct has urged him to move. He who understands this and uses his logical mind in his quest has lost his first steps of guidance and happiness.

Since his birth, his perfectionist instinct has urged him to move.
He who understands this and uses his logical mind in his quest has lost his first steps of guidance and happiness.

Our times, if we do not do good, cut us by the end of our lives.

Our times, if we do not do good, cut us by the end of our lives.

Helping a child to fill his physical and psychological needs is a saving for him and society.

Helping a child to fill his physical and psychological needs is a saving for him and society.

Programming minds with unconscious ideas and convictions, including a kind of "brainwashing", a means of cultural invasion.

Programming minds with unconscious ideas and convictions, including a kind of "brainwashing", a means of cultural invasion.

Seeking forgiveness for people is not weakness, but reason is a duty not to surround us humans with everything.

Seeking forgiveness for people is not weakness, but reason is a duty not to surround us humans with everything.

What some consider evil, may appear good later.

What some consider evil, may appear good later.

I hear your words, I believe you

I hear your words, I believe you

A person's feeling that he can not do what he likes, so that he satisfies his desires and instincts that keep him alive and physically happy, makes him feel very depressed regardless of whether he loves what is right or wrong. And what prevents him from doing what he likes either to be an external factor such as family habits, community or religious legislation, or internally as psychological and moral factors. It is possible for someone to refrain from doing some improper habits such as smoking, sleeping late, disturbing others, breaking laws, watching pornography, etc. from unhealthy habits, at least physically and psychologically. But he does not feel comfortable doing anything he likes or likes.

This may make him unable to withstand the long time to refrain from these habits, he feels suppressed and waiting for the opportunity to get away from him. He finds that he does not mind smoking only one cigarette, he has proved to himself that it does not control or insult some people as a joke, it will not hurt anything. We also find that some parents prevent their children from these habits, which they see as abnormal and yet they are unable to refrain from them. We also find people waiting for the joys to break the rules and do some excitement as if they were in a race for cars, not to mention the "Bib Pip Pip Pip" which does not symbolize anything related to marriage or its purpose. Even in funerals where the "microphones" sound so loudly that even listeners are unable to hear what is being read. Although teaching their children that infringing upon and harassing others' rights is a wrong act, we find that they do not adhere to these advice in many actions, regardless of the circumstances and feelings of others.

If we are to analyze and understand this paradoxical human behavior, we need to know how man constructs his beliefs and opinions about things around him. This will help us in the so-called social psychology "trends" which was one of the first scientists to use is the thinker "Herbert Spencer" in his book "Principles I" in the following:

"The arrival of valid provisions in controversial issues, depends largely on our mental orientation and we listen to this debate in which we participate, and to form a sound direction must learn to differentiate between the beliefs of the right and wrong people.

Since the trend is a set of human thoughts and feelings that direct it to do something, let us review its components first, before we go deeper into analysis. In the beginning, a person recognizes things around him with sense and reason, gathering information about what he wants to know. This means that the information that a person receives about things is true or false will form his knowledge about the reality around him and this stage is called the "cognitive" component of the trend.

After that, man has a "feeling" toward the thing that information has been collected from. If information is made of that thing, it is beautiful and desirable. If we say the name of that thing, we find a wonderful feeling. But if the information is to be disrespectful to that and to make it blameworthy, then the person will escape it. On the contrary, if he mentioned that, he had a bad feeling, for example "chocolate" in exchange for the smell of manure, for example. This feeling is the "emotional" component. Then comes the latest components of the trend, which is the "behavioral" component. Where the human act or behavior is certain, and this behavior is the result of what the human reaches in the two stages mentioned above.

Accordingly, we can analyze some of the reasons why they behave in that way (ie Component 3):

The reason why a smoker behaves in such a way is that the cognitive component is weak. In the sense that he does not see the cigarette as harmful and because he does not have enough scientific, moral or religious information to make him aware of his danger, Positive "smoking, and that the scientists did not reach a definitive conclusion about its relationship to lung cancer!

There is also something that makes a person stick to a habit, but because his heart is attached to something before there is clear information about the damage and the consequences of attachment to it. Because he is attracted to cigarettes when watching some films that show smokers in the image of a liberal or social prestige! Usually become over time. This is one of the basic ways in which the owners of industries and material interests promote their products to their customers by directing them to love the "product" without thinking about its harm, depending on the fact that if a person falls in love with something like "watching pornography" Second, it will be very difficult to get rid of it.

As for community customs in which laws are broken like "joys and mansions", the problem lies in the cognitive and emotional component. It is the right of others not to be annoyed as it is the right of the resident of joy or dream to express his happiness or grief without infringing on the rights of others, it must take into account their own circumstances such as disease and old age or the dates of examinations of students in schools, for example, and to learn more about the importance of habits and how They are also configured as to how to get rid of them if they are harmful. You can watch this video (the power of habits).

Hence, it is clear to us the importance of sources of information and the importance of logic, which analyzes and refutes the knowledge of good and invalid, and guides the human to what is false or relative, and what is cut or absolute of this information to rethink the attachment to it. When judging the mind and not the emotions related to his heart what is right in the first place, not what is attractive or satisfactory to lusts only. If he does not immunize himself with his mind and his morals, which are the best and most correct in the formation of his orientations, "his thoughts, feelings and behavior" and his decisions that may become habits later, he will not reach anything in this life. This is not only because his perception of it will be wrong, but also will be manipulated by his judgment through his feelings and desires, which makes him easy prey in the hands of others.

We conclude here with a famous quote by Indian thinker "Gandhi" who said:

Dishonesty to believe in something and do not practice it.

It is not appropriate for us to remain complacent about our poor conditions, but rather to be aware of the problems of reform.

It is not appropriate for us to remain complacent about our poor conditions, but rather to be aware of the problems of reform.